Historical records indicate The Gospel According to John was written sometime between 70-100AD (there are manuscripts of parts of John in Egypt dated to the year 100AD.) In 70AD Roman soldiers ransacked Jerusalem and completely destroyed the temple. When Jesus predicted that "not one stone would be left on another," it must have been hard to imagine how that could even be possible, but only a few decades later that is exactly what came to pass. John's target audience were a people without a temple, living under brutal occupation, and largely rejected by the religious leaders of their time.
The fourth Gospel account is unique in composition and material covered when compared to the first three Synoptic Gospel accounts. It was written for a church living in a different context and teaching a different set of oral traditions. The truth of the Good News remains the same, but John records aspects of Christ's ministry that were important to those he was ministering to. From the very beginning Christianity has been willing to sacrifice or adopt man-made traditions in order to make the truth of the Gospel message accessible to people.
Do you want a deeper relationship with Jesus, but there is a church practice or tradition preventing you? Reach out to Pastor Vaughn, me, or your local pastor and help us understand your situation.
In your local setting, are you possibly insisting on a routine, practice, or adiaphora (things of little consequence) that is preventing others from receiving the Gospel message? Pray the Holy Spirit would reveal where you are relying on what is familiar and comfortable instead of trusting in the Lord. Again reach out to your pastor and let us help you find a way to meet your neighbor where they are.

In Christ,

Chappy